This is as old as time itself! Girl meets guy. Girl instantly likes guy. Guy tells girl he’s not interested (or available) for a relationship. Girl says its fine and they can be friends…when in reality, Girl wants more…much more.
Here are 2 ways it can go down:
Scenario 1: He can start sleeping with you.Eh…why not? He’s single. You’re single and willing. What’s so wrong with him having sex with you when he’s horny or bored? Harsh? Well, that’s the point! He probably wouldn’t tell you all this. No…he’ll just keep giving you bullshit excuses as to why he “can’t get into a relationship right now…” You eat it up. All of it. read on…
Dating is an art that a lot of people still haven’t mastered. Most single women complain that there are no good men out there. Now, while I can’t argue that there are SO many wonderful men just DYING to commit, I can say this much: Most women wouldn’t even know what to do with a good man IF he was thrown at them!
Sometimes, you could actually be meeting the right guys—those with “potential husbands” written all over them—and you’re messing up. My friend, Jules, was in a relationship for over 5 years and was engaged to the guy. Things didn’t work out and they both walked away after trying time and time again to stay together. read on…
Ok…so, I’m aware. Its been awhile. My apologies. However, lets get reconnected, shall we?
A lot of things have happened over the last few months. I’m headed to Grad school in a bit…
Oh, remember all that “Planning the wedding” stuff I had going on? Yea…thats not the case anymore either. No, the wedding never happened. I’ll get into details as we move on. So….yea, what have u guys been up to? Anything exciting? Anyone in a new and healthy relationship? Oh, maybe even a proposal happened recently? Share!!!
Dolly,
Please, I want u to advice me about a guy I met on the net. We started talking on phone..he actually lives in the states and I live in Nig. We never met but he make his intentions known to me. He wants marriage and asked me to give him my attention and I did…I started liking him and looking forward to meeting him… but what i don’t understand about him is he doesnt call me everyday and sometimes I’ll text him, checking on him he replys me and never calls…and he promised coming on valentines day and he never called to let me know he is still coming…I’m just so confused. Pls advice me. I think i like him alot..if he’s for real, can I go ahead and call him?
From a concerned reader.
Dear Concerned Reader,
I definitely feel your frustration and you have every right to question his intentions. However I have a few concerns.
For starters, read on…
I wanna know your opinions on this! What do you think? If you’ve ever been cheated on, did you forgive him/her? Does the trust ever come back? Do you think its possible to cheat only once and quit the habit? Is it fair to say that everyone makes mistakes and we should just forgive? Is it worth a second chance?
I wanna know what you think!