I don’t understand him…
Let's Talk, relationships 9 February 2010 Love dolly 3 Comments.
Dolly,
Please, I want u to advice me about a guy I met on the net. We started talking on phone..he actually lives in the states and I live in Nig. We never met but he make his intentions known to me. He wants marriage and asked me to give him my attention and I did…I started liking him and looking forward to meeting him… but what i don’t understand about him is he doesnt call me everyday and sometimes I’ll text him, checking on him he replys me and never calls…and he promised coming on valentines day and he never called to let me know he is still coming…I’m just so confused. Pls advice me. I think i like him alot..if he’s for real, can I go ahead and call him?
From a concerned reader.
Dear Concerned Reader,
I definitely feel your frustration and you have every right to question his intentions. However I have a few concerns.
For starters, read on…
We often say that men confuse us and that we are unsure what a man is really looking for. Okay, so what are men really seeking/craving?
If you’re anything like me and don’t want any man to waste your time, then this is for you! You’re too inteligent to spend a large amount of your time making excuses and rationalizing male behavior when the truth is: He’s just not into you! I figured I’d share the following signs with you…
I’m not gonna say this is for ladies only…I’m simply gonna say more women feel this way than men do. You know those times when you ask your man a question like ”Has it ever crossed your mind since we’ve been together to sleep with someone else?” or “Do you look at other women?” or “Would you sometimes rather hang out with the boys than with me?”