10 signs he’s cheating…
When you start having a feeling that your man is cheating on you, its time to get to the bottom of it. Now, the fact that your man is displaying some of the signs below does NOT necessarily mean that he’s cheating on you. He might be going through something else but whatever his reasons are, you definitely need to get things out in the open. These signs are simply a warning that you should pay more attention to your relationship before it gets worse!
1. His phone rings at odd times. Does he get phone calls around midnight or so but he doesn’t pick it up if you’re in the room? And then when you ask who’s calling, he tries to brush off the question? Does he freak out when his phone rings and you’re closer to the phone than he is? This is a sure sign that he is hiding something!
2. He starts buying you expensive gifts. If your man is usually busy and you hardly see him, this might not be a red flag. However, if he suddenly starts showering you with expensive gifts, then this might be out of guilt. He probably spent some time with someone else and is trying to make it up to you!
3. He’s paying you more attention than usual. This is an extension of Nos 2. He could be showing you more attnetion than usual because he’s feeling guilty for cheating on you. You want to dig deeper to find out why he has suddenly had a change of heart. It’s even worse when you question him and he gets offended and says things like “What? A man can’t want to do something nice just because he wants to do something nice?”
4. Whenever you ask him something, he gets very defensive. This is also another sign that your mate might be having an affair. He gets defensive because a part of him believes that you may have found out his secret affair. Due to this, he jumps down your throat everytime you ask questions.
5. Your sex-life doesn’t feel the same. This is always a bad sign! The moment your sex life changes (usually for the worse) sends a bad signal. It could be that he is simply stressed out over work or he could be going through a midlife crisis. But most of the time? Its because he’s cheating! When a man is sleeping with more than two women, its exhausting and you can always tell that he’s exhausted! Chances are thus: If he’s not sleeping with you, he’s probably sleeping with someone else!
6. He’s uncomfortable having you as a friend on facebook/myspace. This is pretty short and straight to the point. Its either compromising pictures of him with another woman or different comments his friends have on his wall or his status says “single.” He doesn’t want you as a friend on these social network sites because he has something to hide.
7. You get phone calls and the caller hangs up whenever you pick up. This is also a very simple sign. The person calling and hanging up doesn’t want to talk to you. She’s been given instructions to never ask for him when she calls. If he’s not the one that picks up the phone when she calls, then she has to hang up and try again later. Period.
8. His phone conversations end when you walk in the room. If this happens more than once, then its not a coincidence at all. He is hanging up the phone when you walk into the room because he doesn’t want you to know who is on the other line. Its even more obvious if you ask him who he was just talking to and he stutters. Or if he has become a good liar over time, then he might tell you a lie with a straight face. However, be on alert…his stories won’t add up over time!
9. He starts putting passwords on his phone and laptop. He’s doing this because he is hiding either a series of text messages, pictures on his laptop, call logs, picture messages on his phone or a combination of all of these. Don’t ignore this sign! Its almost as good as a confession about his infidelity.
10. You simply start having a gut feeling that things are not right. The moment you start to question yourself about your relationship, chances are that something is NOT right! As women, we are wired to feel it when out men are cheating. Some of us try to ignore the signs but for others that want the truth? If you feel suspicious, there’s probably a great reason for it.
Some related postPosted on 8 August '09 by dolly, under relationships, sex.
#1 Posted by charles (10.08.09 at 15:56 )
this is nice…though i have to argue that it aint completely true..
despite the fact that i have played a few away matches…
still i didnt do all these stuff..
but its a great blog though..pls do let us know the signs she is cheating.
thanks
#2 Posted by dolly (10.08.09 at 16:31 )
These signs are usually more noticeable when you have lived with a spouse for a period of time. It makes it easier to notice changes in patterns in the other person. Another thing to consider is that these signs tend to be more apparent from the point of view of the person looking from outside in. We sometimes don’t realize we’re doing something until someone else points it out…like our other half!
Thanks for the comment…
#3 Posted by Phoenix (14.10.09 at 03:31 )
Hello. Great job. I did not expect this on a Wednesday. This is a great story. Thanks!
#4 Posted by dolly (14.10.09 at 09:18 )
Thanks Phoenix! I appreciate the compliment! Much more to come…
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