5 Signs He’s Not Into You…
If you’re anything like me and don’t want any man to waste your time, then this is for you! You’re too inteligent to spend a large amount of your time making excuses and rationalizing male behavior when the truth is: He’s just not into you! I figured I’d share the following signs with you…
1) He doesn’t return your phone calls in 24 hours. I know we’re all busy but if it takes him an entire day to call you back, then he’s just trying in a very subtle way to let you go. There are some special instances where he doesn’t call in an entire day but if he makes a habit of it, then you shouldn’t bother expecting anything meaningful from this “relationship.”
2) He only calls really late at night. Unless he has odd working hours, then this is otherwise a bad sign. If he doesn’t enjoy talking to you before midnight, then he might have a totally different idea about you. Does he only seem to call when he wants phone sex? Or when he wants to come over to get the real thing? Or wants to hang out at the last minute? He’s obviously hanging out with you until he finds someone he’s more interested in.
3) There’s always an excuse about meeting the parents. Or friends. Or public gatherings. He does everything within his power to keep you from his parents. He hasn’t asked you to meet his mom and dad. He doesn’t invite you to family functions or gatherings, even on special occasions or Holidays. He never mentions you or brings your name up in conversations to the ones he loves.
4) He communicates with you via text messages only. His texts are random, vague jargon, and rarely pertain to anyone or anything but himself. He sends these brief exchanges of words mainly during work hours when he’s bored, just to pass time.
With new age technology, texting has become normal, but it’s not acceptable when it’s the only form of communication you have. Receiving LOL messages are cute for teenagers, and it’s even catchy when Trey Songz sings about it, but it just doesn’t do it for adults. He could be sending mass texts to many females at once, and you would never know it. If he doesn’t wish to interact with you in person, then he’s not serious.
5) He’s emotionally and physically detached from you. Lets face it: Men love to have sex! If he used to love sleeping with you and couldn’t keep his hands off you…but all of a sudden, he withdraws from you, then he’s probably no longer interested. Fact is thus: If he’s not sleeping with you at all, he’s sleeping with someone else.
Relationships are not built on sex alone. It is a whole combination of things and they all go hand in hand. If ALL he’s doing is sleeping with you, then this also a bad sign. But this is harder to tell. However, if he’s stopped sleeping with you and makes up excuses everytime you want to have sex, then there’s a problem here!!!
Some related postPosted on 3 November '09 by dolly, under Let's Talk, relationships.
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