Dealing with a Break up…
I picked this picture cos I used to LOVE Gilmore Girls! Here’s Lorelai and Luke breaking up. Man, I connected with this show sooooo much but anyhoo…
Break ups are messy and scary and sometimes inevitable. It hurts whether you’re the one doing the break up or you’re the one being broken up with! There are several things that you can do to get over someone. We all have different methods that help us move on…For me, some things that helped me over the years include: Keeping myself busy with work, hanging out with friends, and cutting off all communication from him. I mentioned this because I’ve noticed that encouraging contact with an ex is never a productive thing…unless I plan on getting back together with him. When you keep having sex or talking to an ex, you can never fully detach yourself from that relationship and move on.
I know its difficult to totally cut off all contact with him but thats your only chance of moving on to something better. A girlfriend of mine is very into rebounds as a healing method. She says it works out pretty well for her cos she just needs to have a quick fling to move on. Well, that works for her. I can’t tell you much about this because this was never my technique.
But, I wanna hear from you! What has worked for you during a break up?
Some related postPosted on 10 October '09 by dolly, under Let's Talk, relationships.
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