This is an art…call it a gift if you want. I’ve seen some people give head to a woman and feel sorry for her. I’m not here to bash some men for not being great at oral sex. Believe it or not, everyone that gives great head learned it! I can promise you somethin though: Give her the most pleasurable oral sex she’s ever had and she’s hooked for life! Trust me on this…

 

I was discussing this topic with some girlfriends and you can soooo tell when a woman is satisfied with her man’s “oral sex-giving” skills. Admittedly, half of the problem is that some ladies don’t tell yall when it doesn’t feel good. Some people shy away from the topic while others don’t want to mess up your self-esteem/ ego.

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But for things to get better, trust me, we have to talk about it! And you have to be willing to put your pride aside and talk about it too. Let her show you her body…and show you what pleases her! I would like to encourage you to try to ask her to pleasure herself while you watch. Trust me, this makes a difference.

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Not only does it help you get aroused, but it also helps her! At the same time, when you see her moan, you can take mental notes to be applied later! Have fun!

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