Ready for the truth? Love hurts…
I’m not gonna say this is for ladies only…I’m simply gonna say more women feel this way than men do. You know those times when you ask your man a question like ”Has it ever crossed your mind since we’ve been together to sleep with someone else?” or “Do you look at other women?” or “Would you sometimes rather hang out with the boys than with me?”
I’m not saying you shouldn’t ask your man these things but be careful! Are you willing to accept it if he answers YES to either of the above questions? Look, lets be real. When we hang out with our girls, we talk/ look at other guys. It’s ok…We all do it! Why would you expect less from your man? He’s human, ain’t he?
The problem with society today is the false image movies portray. Love doesn’t mean NOT finding other people attractive. Love is not a bed of roses. Love hurts sometimes and you’ll want to walk away from it all. Love means having to fight (not literally) for what you want.
We all have something that inspires us during difficult times. I think Avant said it the best in his song, “When it hurts”
“Can you take me telling you the truth
When I know the situation is shadiest…
Babygirl we gotta face it
There’ll be times that we let each other down
And on the days that you ain’t feeling me
Will you be able to stick around?
Cause anything worth having’s worth fighting for
If we really want this thing to work
We gotta go to war…
I wanna change people’s definition of love
So forget what you heard
Cause the only way that this will work
Is if you love me when it hurts…”
I love this song particularly because a lot of people don’t think this way at all. You should be happy in whatever relationship you’re in…but don’t run away when things get tough! Your man should always try his possible best to make you happy. But never forget that he’s human and will make mistakes sometimes…
Some related postPosted on 13 October '09 by dolly, under Let's Talk, relationships.
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