Threesome with my future wife?
Hey Dolly,
My girl and I are getting married in a few months. She’s been asking me for a while now what kind of fantasy I want fulfilled during our weekend together before our wedding. We are taking a mini-vacation 2 months before the wedding. I really what to have a threesome with my future wife and another girl but I’m not sure how she’ll take it.
Should I just go ahead and ask her? She’s very laid back and I’m not sure if thats her thing but she said she wants to fulfill one of my fantasies on this trip. I’ve heard from a friend of mine that something like this could mess up our relationship. Is this true?
From: Alan* in Colorado
* The name has been changed
Alan,
First off, Congratulations. I hope both of you are very happy together. Also, seems to me like you have a good woman on your hands. The fact that she’s very laid back but is willing to fulfill a fantasy to please you is a good thing.
Now, the simple answer to your question would be to ask her! Whats the worst that could happen? She’ll say she doesn’t want to invite another woman into yall’s sex life and thats it. I know a few people who have had many sexual experiences with their husbands (including threesomes) and this didn’t seem to affect their marriage negatively.
However, some other couples actually have serious dificulty reviving their relationship after having a threesome. It all depends on the nature of the relationship and intimacy you have. For example: Is you fiancee very jealous? Has she ever mentioned making out with a girl while in college or at some wild party? If she wanted a similar fantasy fulfilled, would you be willing to do it? Have you considered if a stranger or friend would be the appropriate way to go? Is this fantasy mainly about your fiancee being with another woman while you watch or do you want them both to please you?
Once you answer these questions, it should better help you understand what exactly you Should do. Unfortunately (as I mentioned before), this works very differently with various couples and so I can’t give you a definite answer on what to do. I can only tell you to talk to her about it and ask yourself the questions I have listed above. This will definitely help you make the best decision…but communication is key!
More question? No problem. Email me back!
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#6 Posted by Norma Martin (11.11.09 at 15:14 )
This brings back to mind something funny that my dad always said…
Then it is so inappropriate right now…
#7 Posted by Eugene Taylor (11.11.09 at 15:43 )
You could always try to have a threesome with a girlfriend or something but if she’s going to be your wife and mother of your children, then I don’t know how you’ll both look at it a couple of years down the line.
You should have done this in college or something…like every other normal dude!
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Obviously it’s probably inappropriate just now…
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