Why do women fake orgasms?
A male reader reached out to me and asked why women sometimes fake orgasms with our men in bed. Jake was confused because if a woman is not having an orgasm, then why fake one? He talked to a couple of guy friends and they all decided to join forces and “confront” us. Below was my answer:
Jake,
I dunno about you guys but I wouldn’t want my woman faking an orgasm. But isn’t the better question…why is she faking an orgasm? Is it because the sex is no good? Or is she just hard to please? Ok, so that was more than one question, lol!
You wanna hear somethin funny? About 70% of women haved faked at least 1 orgasm in bed! The reason why men cannot fake an orgasm like we can is cos you can tell when a man is hard. Pleasure with men is easy…just grab and go! But with women, the only way you can tell we’re excited is if we get wet. Here are a few reasons why your girl might be faking:
1) She’s afraid she’s taking too long to have an orgasm so she fakes it
2) She aint in the mood but she doesn’t wanna hurt your feelings
3) She’s tired
4) She’s in pain and wants to get it over with (yep, big penises are not always a good thing!)
The bad thing about all this is that yall end up not knowing what works. What can you do? Talk to your girl. Make her comfortable enough to talk to you about what gets her off. Let her tell you the best way to give her the best orgasm ever…and trust me, she’ll return the favor!
Some related postPosted on 14 September '09 by dolly, under Guys talk, Let's Talk, relationships.
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