Your man looks at other women…
We’ve probably all been there before…maybe you and your other half are at dinner or a store or anywhere for that matter, and another lady walks by. He turns and looks at her and there’s that awkward fight conversation about why he looked at someone else. Here’s my take on this little problem:
Men are simplistic creatures and the sooner you understand them, the better and stronger your relationship becomes! Here’s a cold hard fact you MIGHT not want to hear: Men will always looks at other women. I don’t care how long you guys have been together or how much he loves you! When he looks at other women, its not because he doesn’t love you…Nope, not that at all. Its because men are built that way. They notice when a beautiful woman walks by them.
Here’s how you know if you have a good man beside you: If he looks/glances for a quick second and turns away to focus back on you, then this is a natural phenomenon. However, if he turns and STARES at someone else, then you may have a problem on your hands. This means that he can easily be tempted and mess around with someone else.
In my relationship, my other half glances at other women and truthfully, this doesn’t bother me at all. Actually, I laugh about it and ask him if he thinks she’s cute. I’m not asking you to get this comfortable in your relationship right away. But the sooner I learned that men will always be men, the better my relationship became!
I know you don’t want to hear me say this but, you might loose a few good men if you don’t realize the difference between glancing and staring.
Posted on 6 August '09 by dolly, under relationships.
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